We all know that each and every individual has its own body language. We do judge each other by the same…now as world is techno-savvy; it has taken one step ahead… where body language is transformed into text-a-language, sms-language and phone-a-language! We now judge each other more by the way we text and talk.
When we go for a party where many people are invited, do we gel with all? We with our vibes, our intuition and each other’s body language, choose to talk to few…who makes us feel comfortable, right? As body language plays an important role in our life…there s something which weighs more in our relationship.
And that is…………………… our LOVE LANGUAGE!!!
We all love to be loved by our loved ones…but sometimes relation reaches to that point where gradually we feel something is going wrong. Suddenly, the bitterness, the ignorance and avoidance takes place.
Yes. We do love each other but that bond is not that strong which it was used to…Somewhere we get confused and ignorant…to this basic need of life….LOVE!!!
Very few of us can talk about our love language to our partner…and…When we talk…it’s mostly in the presence of our well-wishers (counsellors, friends…that also if we are lucky and give time and understanding to our relationship!).
So what are LOVE LANGUAGES?
Love languages are:
1) Word Of Affirmation: “The tongue has the power of life and death.”
2) Quality Time: “Giving someone your undivided attention – keeping no difference between
the dating couple and married couple.”
3) Receiving Gifts: ” The worth of gift has NOTHING to do with monetary value AND
EVERYTHING to do with love.”
4) Act Of Service: “Request gives direction to love but demand stops the flow of love.”
5) Physical Touch: “All the ‘LOVE TOUCHES’ are the emotional lifeline.”
I was gifted a book by my friend “The Five Love Languages” written by Gary Chapman. Personally I felt that everyone should read this book, especially married couples. Not because all have some or the other problems but to make married life more sparkling!
I request all, to read, to think, to apply…in all your relations…
It’s never too late…………if both the partner decide to make it and not break it……..
MAY GOD BLESS US ALL!
